
The Art of a Santri in Choosing the Ideal Spouse
By Dr. Abdul Wadud Nafis, LC., MEI Marriage is not merely the union of two individuals, but also the unification of two families, two mindsets, and two life paths converging towards a single goal: building a household blessed by Allah SWT. For santri—those nurtured in Islamic boarding schools enriched with religious values—choosing a life partner is not a trivial matter that can be based on feelings alone. Amidst the current of modernity that often blurs the line between love and lust, santri represent a generation that safeguards purity, character, and life principles guided by the Qur’an and Sunnah. They are taught not only to look for someone attractive to the eyes, but for someone who brings peace to the heart, shares the same vision, and walks hand in hand towards…