By Dr. Abdul Wadud Nafis, LC., MEI
The tongue, though without bones, is the sharpest weapon humans possess. With it, we can spread goodness as vast as the ocean or sow the thorns of enmity that cause pain. A guarded tongue is like a gem that radiates light for those around it; however, if left unchecked, it can become a fire that burns away all goodness. In a Muslim’s life, guarding the tongue is not just a matter of ethics but a pillar of faith that determines who we are before Allah and in the eyes of others.
How often do we regret uncontrolled words? How often do misplaced words trigger divisions and misunderstandings? This is where the urgency of guarding the tongue lies. The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) reminded us that a true Muslim is one who protects their tongue from hurting others. Indeed, kind words can build brotherhood, spread peace, and invite Allah’s pleasure. Therefore, let us deeply reflect on the importance of guarding the tongue, not only for personal goodness but also to build a meaningful and harmonious life.
Guarding the tongue in a Muslim’s life is not merely a recommendation but an obligation with far-reaching impacts on faith, morality, and the quality of social relationships. The tongue has the power to spread either good or evil, motivate or destroy, and thus has a significant effect on various aspects of a Muslim’s life. The following is a broader explanation of the urgency of guarding the tongue:
- Obedience to Allah’s Command and the Prophet’s Teachings
Guarding the tongue is a form of obedience to Allah (SWT) and His Messenger. Allah has reminded in the Qur’an that every word spoken by humans is recorded by angels as a responsibility to be answered for on the Day of Judgment, as stated in Surah Qaf: 18, “Not a word is spoken but there is a watcher by him ready to record it.” By guarding the tongue, a Muslim demonstrates obedience to Allah’s command and an awareness that all actions, including speech, will be accounted for. - Protecting Oneself from Major Sins
The tongue is a source of many sins, such as slander, gossip, backbiting, and lying. The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said, “A person’s faith will not be upright until his heart is upright, and his heart will not be upright until his tongue is upright.” (HR. Ahmad). These harmful words not only jeopardize one’s own soul but also damage social relationships and negatively impact others. Guarding the tongue is an important step in protecting oneself from major sins that could have adverse effects in this life and the Hereafter. - Improving and Preserving Social Relations
Islam strongly encourages the creation of brotherhood (ukhuwah) among the community. An uncontrolled tongue, such as frequently criticizing, mocking, or uttering harsh words, can destroy good relationships and brotherhood. Conversely, a tongue that speaks kindly and politely will strengthen social bonds and bring peace. The Prophet (SAW) reminded us in his hadith, “A Muslim is one from whose hands and tongue other people are safe” (HR. Bukhari and Muslim). Therefore, guarding the tongue means actively contributing to maintaining unity and harmony in society. - Protecting the Dignity of Oneself and Others
The tongue reflects a person’s character. By speaking kindly and avoiding bad words, a Muslim protects their own dignity before Allah and others. Moreover, guarding the tongue also means respecting the dignity of others. Avoiding slander, defamation, or sarcasm directed at others is an aspect of etiquette highly emphasized in Islam. Dignity and self-respect are invaluable to everyone, and guarding the tongue is a way to honor this. - Attaining Allah’s Pleasure and Reward
Allah grants great rewards to those who guard their tongues and speak kindly. The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said, “Indeed, a servant who utters a word that pleases Allah without realizing it, Allah will elevate his rank in Paradise because of that word.” (HR. Bukhari). Every kind word, such as greeting someone with peace, praying for others, or speaking gently, is recorded as an act of goodness that earns reward and draws one closer to Allah. - Preventing Conflict and Hostility
Many conflicts and divisions arise due to uncontrolled speech. Harsh words, slander, or words that belittle others are often the primary triggers for disputes. By guarding the tongue, a Muslim can avoid conflicts and preserve peace in everyday life. The Prophet (SAW) said, “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him speak good or remain silent” (HR. Bukhari and Muslim). This principle guides Muslims to only speak words that are beneficial or remain silent to maintain peace. - Reflecting Faith and Noble Character
A guarded tongue reflects a Muslim’s faith and character. Good, polite, and wise words display the beauty of Islam and inspire others to emulate it. Guarding the tongue in moments of emotion or difficult situations reflects patience and the strength of faith. This is in accordance with the Prophet’s (SAW) statement, “The believer with the most complete faith is the one with the best character.” (HR. Abu Dawud). Guarding the tongue is an integral part of noble character, which is highly valued in Islam. - Developing Wisdom
The ability to guard the tongue and choose wise words demonstrates emotional and spiritual maturity. In many situations, a wise Muslim does not rush to speak but considers the impact of their words before speaking. This reflects wisdom, the ability to think long-term and act prudently. Allah describes the wise as noble servants, those who guard their speech and are always cautious in communication. - Avoiding Regret in the Future
Uncontrolled speech often leads to regret later. In moments of anger or haste, we may say things that damage relationships or hurt others, which are difficult to repair or retract. By guarding the tongue, a Muslim can avoid words that harm themselves or others, thus preventing future regret.
Guarding the tongue in a Muslim’s life is a reflection of mature faith, self-control, and awareness of social and spiritual responsibility. By guarding the tongue, a Muslim not only draws closer to Allah but also creates a peaceful, loving, and respectful environment.
Conclusion:
Guarding the tongue is like planting a seed that grows into a tree of blessings in our lives. In every word we speak, there is a power that can either become abundant reward or a sin that ensnares us. The tongue is not just a tool for speaking; it is a determinant of our fate before Allah and fellow humans. The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) reminded us that speech reflects our faith, and the wise will choose to speak kindly or remain silent.
Let us make every word a reflection of goodness and noble character. Every word we utter is a step towards a peaceful life, filled with love and blessings. By guarding the tongue, we not only protect ourselves from sin but also open the path to Allah’s pleasure and strong brotherhood. May we always be given the strength to guard our tongues and adorn our lives with words that bring goodness to the world and the Hereafter.
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